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In Light Of The New 50 Shades of Grey Trailer


E.L. James knows as much about BDSM as she would have found in a five minute Google search, which is to say that she knows precisely jack shit.

50 Shades of Grey does not depict a realistic kinky relationship, nor does it depict a healthy relationship of either the kinky or vanilla variety.


Some of y’all wanted specifics, here ya go.


A friend had all 8 of the Masters of Shadowlands books on her Kindle, and she shared them so now I’ve got all 8 too!

Guess I’ll be doing some reading tonight. ☺️



repeat after me friends: 

  • vaginas are self-cleaning
  • there is no such thing as a dirty vagina
  • unless you have an infection 
  • in which case  your vagina still isn’t dirty but you should really go see a doctor 
  • but yeah
  • vaginas aren’t “clean” or “dirty” they’re self-cleaning acidic muscular tracts 
  • so fuck off

and dicks are not

dicks get nasty clean that shit

(via mixedsiren)


Look at Fifty Shades Of Grey's knot.

Now look at my knot.

Now back at FSoG.  Now back at me.

This is the knot your knot could look like if you bothered to ask actual BDSM players, or hell, even their YouTube channels, before making a movie supposedly about BDSM.  I’m not a rope top and I did that one-handed.

I’m on a horse.

The thing where they justify abuse by saying “it’s BDSM, of course it’s sick and wrong” is still a bigger problem though.

The I’m on a horse comment made me snort. But really, this post is spot on.

And her knot looks gorgeous!!! 😍


In light of the 50 Shades of Grey trailer coming out today, quick reminder that that book is about an abusive and controlling relationship, not BDSM.

Fanfiction (published or not) is important for women of all ages to explore gender roles and sexuality in a way that is less stigmatized and more accessible. 

But do not do the BDSM community a disservice by calling the relationship described in the book a standard BDSM experience. 

I think I might re-read the 50 Shades books *shudder*

So that I can highlight the parts myself (and others in the real bdsm scene) talk about being abusive, controlling and wrong.

Maybe I’ll highlight all the errors the editor missed too…

Or make a drinking game out of how many fucking times Ana talks about her “inner goddess”…fuck I’d be drunk in no time.

The fact that you obviously can’t read is disgusting.


Where have I ONCE said I enjoyed it?

Edit: I said “my issue isn’t with people who found it entertaining…because at points I did too. my issue is with those that see this as a perfectly normal, and healthy relationship, both in and out of the bdsm world.” That’s what you’re bitching about??? Yet I’ve posted how many things over the last few days opposing it? Wow anon, get the fuck over yourself.

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